Ever hear yourself say that?
Or, how about?
I can tell you now that's a BIG fat lie.
So you step away from the pen, paint brush, camera ... for. the. rest. of. your life. Or you settle for work you don't like, say yes when you want to say no, and stop trusting yourself.
Yes, you can.
And I should know because I've told myself those exact same words (and some even worse)! Words that keep us stuck in the same old patterns, away from doing what we love, and denying us what we want.
I got over it for you and me.
If you ever reach a point in your life where you hear yourself say, "If not me, then who?" like I did. It's you.
I decided to do something about it in my life and now I want to help you do something about it in yours.
A life that honours their desires, trusts their instincts,
and is of their own making.
It doesn't have to be.
She Creates is all about removing the fear and doubt that can come up when you decide to make a change in your life... like changing careers, going for that promotion, or sticking to a health practice through to setting new boundaries, saying no, and listening to your instinct. As well as bringing back the know-how and trust that you’ve got this. Because you do... even if you don't believe it right at this moment.
When you’re moving outside of your comfort zone, a zone you may have been in for a long time, you can get lost along the way. Which can end up with you quitting on your dream.
And that just won't do.
That includes all the things you might think are
unreasonable, impossible and crazy...
and anything else your heart desires.
And understand why you gave up, lost motivation, or gave into your fear in the past when going after your dreams.
+ Two hour intensive for Session 1 over Skype.
+ Five one-on-one sessions over Skype with me over 3 months.
+ Your own She Creates resources, templates, and scripts.
+ Unlimited email support and check-ins over the program.
This session is all about laying the foundations to make you rock-solid as you create your life. It's all about knowing who you are and bringing out your best.
+ The things you have to let go of and embrace before you start to make headway in your creative life.
+ Getting clear on your essentials, the foundations
of you and your happiness.
'Sometimes the smallest step in the right direction
ends up being the biggest step of your life.'
It's true that knowing where you're going makes it a lot easier to get there. And in this session we look at getting very clear on where you want to go.
+ We'll look at why wanting to know your purpose
is keeping you stuck.
+ We'll map out the steps you need to take to get to where
you want to go. Not anyone else's steps.
'Knowing is not enough, we must apply.
Willing is not enough, we must do.'
This session is all about taking action and practicing
what you've learned in the first two sessions.
It is in the doing that results come.
This is also where we can unblock anything else that
we may not have cleared previously.
'Surround yourself with people that are only
going to lift you higher.'
The right support is essential when going through change. And it comes in many different forms.
In this session, we'll identify the ideal support network for you, including support that you can give yourself.
The most important support of all.
+ The rituals you need to stay sane.
+ Support for the four different areas that form who you are. All are important.
+ Knowing the difference between fear and intuition.
I'll teach you the signs.
+ Tools and techniques you can begin using straight away to calm, clear, and compel yourself.
'Systems do not simplify the results; systems simplify
the process of getting there.'
Investing in systems when you're making change can be scary. But honestly they are essential. And I'm not talking about electronic systems here, although we will touch on a few depending on your goals.
In this session, we'll figure out the right systems for you.
+ How to attract the right people into your life and
repel the wrong people.
+ Tuning into your ‘run for the hills’ radar. This has been the most important tool in bringing in more like-minded people into my life. It’s all in the words…again. Yes, this is a system too.
During our time together you'll get...
+ Two additional special bonuses tailored especially for you. Think extra support when you need it the most.
And then after the 12 weeks comes...
+ (Optional) 9 months of support and accountability. Every month after our initial twelve weeks together, I’ll touch base with you to see how you’re progressing with your direction (the one we mapped out in Session 2) and set broad goals for the following month. Who better to have as an accountability partner than your coach.
Investment: $90 per month.
Your creativity will flow.
We'll be setting your creativity free.
Your confidence will soar.
Saying no, setting boundaries, and trusting yourself
will feel like second nature.
You'll feel more aligned than ever before.
Your heart, head, and gut will high-five you.
You'll feel healthier and more prosperous.
Your body will love you. And you'll love your road less traveled.
+ Women who constantly give in to the negative voice in their head and are over it. In She Creates, you'll discover how to turn that voice around so it supports and drives you instead of dragging you down or stopping you altogether.
+ Women who want to reconnect with their creativity, change careers, write a book, start a business, follow their dreams. I will tailor the program based on what you're wanting to get out of it.
+ Women who are ready to take action and do the work. Nothing will change if you don't take action.
+ Women are open to new possibilities in their life.
+ Women who expect the coach to do all the work. I am your cheer leader and guide. It doesn't work if I do the work for you.
+ Women who are not ready to commit to themselves.
Shifting into a new way of being takes commitment and ongoing practice.
+ Women who are not interested in mastering their mindset. Mastering your mindset is essential to living creatively.
Professionally trained in communications and mindset strategies, I am an award-winning marketing and communications executive with over 18 years’ experience.
After undertaking my own She Change in 2012 at age 35, I became qualified as a life and leadership coach, which led me to work with women to start their own She Changes in the form of new creative businesses, career promotions, and increased confidence after life traumas. In 2014, I also ran a three-day retreat for women to help them create beautiful and do-able visions for their lives. In 2015, I brought all of my skills, experience and passion together to found She Loves.
My work has been featured in Australian media, inspiredCOACH magazine, Wellineux, and Beautiful You Australia as a happiness and lifestyle expert. Since implementing what I teach in She Creates, I now follow my gut, know how to flow with life's ups and downs, and do work that I love for companies, businesses, and women making a difference in a way that lights me up.
It is my mission with She Loves to help as many women undergo their own She Changes with confidence, enthusiasm, and ease. In particular, women in their mid-30s who keep feeling the niggle for something more but feel they're too old to make the change. You're not.
I've been blessed to work with many amazing women undergoing their own She Changes in life. These are a few things they have to say about working with me:
I can’t begin to say just how many “WOW!” moments
I found during my coaching sessions.
I think we all know somewhere deep in our minds just how incredible we are but unlocking that potential is an amazing thing. It doesn’t happen all at once but every situation, personal and professional, has the potential to go from baseline to orbit. In fact, coaching made me realise how amazing everyone could be if they only knew!
We all get stuck in a rut at some point in our lifetime. Routine tends to dictate what we do and how we do it. All the “if only...” statements convince you “better” is beyond your control. I guess that’s where I was before I commenced coaching. I’d had a bad work experience and had just moved into a new position. I really wanted to prove how good I was but wasn’t sure how to go about standing out from the rest of the team without looking like I was trying way too hard.
Di helped me unlock my potential – it was always there I just had to believe in myself and go for it! Making goals, shifting my belief and taking action changed my focus from “what if?” to “what next!”.
I’d recommend Di’s coaching to anyone – I now understand that the more we learn about ourselves the more amazing we can be.
My mind has been exploded by my experience in coaching,
and that is all down to Diana’s approach, creating
a place where I can be honest, and we can
work together to get the best outcomes.
The short and sweet of it is that my sessions with Diana were amazing. I had very little idea of what a personal coaching session would entail, but Diana took my hand, and took me on a journey of discovery to identify areas in my life that had been holding me back from my potential. And together we worked to remove
negative patterns or bolster positive patterns. I didn't realise how much my unconscious thought patterns had been holding me back, and to be perfectly honest, due to my ignorance, I underestimated the value I would receive from my sessions with Diana.
Diana is very approachable, encouraging, and accepting, which allowed me to be as open and honest as possible, and resulted in the best possible outcomes. I have increased my motivation and drive, and discovered previously unrealised things about myself. Now I feel like I am "on fire", ready to tackle anything. I cannot say enough about how much Diana has been able to help me, be me but better!
She Creates is by application only. Let me know why you'd love to do She Creates in the form below and we'll organise a time to chat first. It's important that we both feel good about working together. That's when real change happens.
At a minimum, you'll need to set aside two hours in the first week and an hour every fortnight for the other 11 weeks to cover our coaching sessions. To get the most out of the experience, I'll give you exercises to do in between sessions that may take you 15 minutes each day.
After the 12 weeks, I'd recommend at least 1 - 2 hours a week including daily actions as ideal for you to make the change you are after. It is a myth that you do something once and then you're done. Life is a practice that you have to build upon every day. When you go through change, where you may feel uncomfortable, you'll also bump up against resistance so consistency in your actions is best. But if you're starting to get worried that you won't find the time, we'll do some work around this in the sessions.
It's also true that you only get out what you put in and if you want to truly embrace your She Creates experience, committing to a certain amount of time each week will ensure you achieve that destination you mapped out in week 2.
She Creates is ideal for you. We'll look at creating a great transition plan for you so you can build off your current job AND build a sustainable practice on the side that you love and reflects the kind of life you truly see yourself living. Our time together will also help you set really strong personal foundations so you can weather the ups and downs of your transition. There will always be ups and downs (it comes with the territory) but with the tools and resources you'll acquire in She Creates you'll be better equipped to thrive rather than survive.
Have a question that isn't answered here? Send them through and I'll get back straight back to you.